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Dear Michele,
The last few years have been very difficult for myself and my husband. We have had so much unbelievable bad luck, which in the last few months has exacerbated and the stress has caused both of us serious ill health. Throughout this I have kept my faith in the universe and beyond, but everything seems to be getting worse every day for us and now I have totally lost all faith in any kind of belief I ever had. I feel so disillusioned with the universe and feel completely lost. How do I get my beliefs back when i feel so distant from them?
love caroline
Hello Caroline
I am going to be direct and just go with the flow with this one. I feel that you have felt trapped in your life in many ways. It is essential for you to be able to express your freedom of spirit. In some ways perhaps your relationship has held you back as I feel he is very different to you. I feel he had a difficult childhood and deep rooted issues from there (connected to his mother or father) he has a fear of being abandoned and you can sometimes over compensate by being there for him in all ways. There needs to be space for your free spirit and optimism. You have a strong past life connection and possibly some issues from a past life together and need to work together to know you are in a new life now. Know that your karma here is good. You have the power to transform this even if it doesn't feel like it.
You have Mars in Capricorn which makes you very tenacious and when you set your mind to something you plough on and climb any obstacles. Right now you have to walk around the obstacles and perhaps look at a totally different career or path. I also feel that 8 years ago there was a situation which blocked you, poss to do with a move? Have you thought about moving but then thought you can’t because of financial constraints. Your Mars squares your sun, moon and Uranus. This gives you periodic energy problems and struggles. However your fantastic optimism is your Mercury planet of communication in Aries as well as your moon. One part of you is all stern and repressed the rest wants to be a free wild adventurous child.
Between the 13th and 31st of December this year you have a big change and a chance to turn everything around for the better. Be honest, be open and also do some work on your Goddess within and your receiving female energy. Your chart tends to make you quite dominant and strong and always there for other people. With some energy shifts and some work on strengthening your more gentle womanly power things can change. I keep getting that you need to find your individuality and be able to express yourself away from your relationship as well as within it. He needs to be able to trust and let go in some way.
You can turn this around but not by banging your head against a wall. Be a shaman and bend with the fates. Don’t get caught up in the injustice of it all but change paths and surrender. Surrendering is not giving up or giving in it is the ability to accept and allow other pathways in. If we loose faith we tend to look at the negative to reaffirm that life or the gods are letting us down. Take time to look for the miracles in everyday little things. Put love into your body and trust it to work things out. There are no easy answers but always there are ways to make things better.
Much love
Michele x
Hi michele,
thanks for your newsletter, I always find them interesting and a delight to read. I wonder if you could help me on a matter of the heart. i've been on my own for 2 years and recently I met this guy who I fell for very quickly. We had only know each other for 2 weeks and it felt really good that we both had strong feelings for each other. but he has now ended it
saying it wasn't me, that it was him, and that I could do better etc. Why did he turn cold so suddenly and why was he so full on to start with and now left me broken hearted?
Hi there
Trust what he says and move on, sometimes these things are a message from the Universe in a way we do not understand. Whatever the outcome , moving on is the only option at this stage. This is a gift, better now than in two years! Hanging about hankering for him will only block the energy further! Show the Universe you love you, you have total faith and all is well. What is for you will not pass you by is my favourite saying. Let go, trust life will bring to you exactly what you need. Sometimes doing this shifts things with the person you crave HOWEVER letting go is ironically the only way to find out. We can link with people and feel close to people for all sorts of reasons, after all we are all one! It does not matter WHY it matters where you take your own soul journey from here. Make a commitment to your own happiness, let go and let the magic of life deliver something that is for you. As you were single for two years the Universe and indeed your soul, is showing you you are ready for a relationship. Don't jump in feet first with the first one that comes along and assume it is love/soulmate etc! You are practising conjuring up a lover/partner. Enjoy that process until you get it just right! Don't be fearful or scared or feel hurt, get excited! Life is full of love, life is actually nothing but love. Tune in and attract something fabulous.
Much love
Michele
Hi Michele
just wanted to say how well your looking you appear to have lost weight??? I have been dieting but have hit a bit of a rough spot as i'm quite miserable at the moment. After finally getting over my ex I met someone purely by accident on the internet of all places. He emailed me and we have so many interests in common and got on so well. Alas he's married but against my better judgement I carried on with the emails. He sent between 40 and 80 a day then all of a sudden nothing, so i did some checking by asking someone he knew what he's like (they told me he's lovely). They also told him I had contacted them and now he won't have anything more to do with me. Stupid as it is i've really fallen for him and desperately want to put things right between us. His last email said. Please can you leave me alone, Im' asking you nicely, bybye. To me that smacks of sarcasm bybye!!!! Does he mean it or is he playing silly games? I'm just don't know anymore. Please micele I would really appreciate your advice on this one, I find it hard to trust my instincts these days coz my ex hurt me so badly!!!
Many thanks and kind regards
Hi There
Let go! All this is doing is undermining you and your self esteem and is a negative pattern! Even if he is as nice as Prince Charming, so what? He is married which is his choice. I am not speaking from the moral high ground as marriage does not mean he is not free to fall in love with you BUT For what ever reason, he has said bye bye.
Even if you do not like his tone, his attitude or his hot/cold energy he has stated that it is over. Respect that and respect your own beautiful but fragile energy and walk on.There is nothing to put right. You can pontificate all day about why he stopped emailing but at the end of the day, accept it! This is in danger of becoming one of those relationships that is a drug. Also as you have not met him in the flesh you cannot possibly be 'in love' with him. The written word is VERY different to reality and can create quite a false impression of a person.
I feel it is time to value yourself and remember your own divinity. You are a beautiful, lovable spirit but you have forgotten how to look after yourself. You have fallen for a fantasy, a dream, not him (I mean to liberate you, not be harsh) Falling for someone is resonating to their energy, feeling a connection. Shift your energy to find the right one for you, someone who is able to give you the energy and commitment you deserve. Let go of past patterns of feeling unlovable or feeling you will be hurt. Fall in love with you today. Want what is best for you as if you were your own best friend.
You can create the right love for you by believing you deserve it. Back off from this one and take it as a lesson to trust your instincts. Love yourself and you will be irresistible to others whatever your size! Remember you're a Goddess!
Why do I say back off? Love is respecting others choices whatever they are. Love is trust and respect of the others divinity. Love is unconditional and allows others to make whatever choices they desire. There cannot be control in love. Love is freedom. When I finally learned that lesson (still learning!) it gave me freedom to become who I am. What a gift that is! Let go of the pain, let go of the drama and love will find you. Have the courage to fall into the open arms of life. Have the courage to be loved and to know you are loved for real. You can and will do it. Feb is a great month for you as well!
I send you loads of love and good vibes
Michele
Hi Michele,
I have just tried your free readings (all of them) and i have text your sms services i feel slightly confused and was hoping you could clear something up for me. so far i have established from your readings i need to spend time alone and build spirituality and wait on whatever i desire, the only thing i desire so much is getting my past love back as i have trid moving on but cannot, and i thought i should just wait and let the universe take its course, but when i text you the question whether i would get my past love back i was advised that I am moving forward not backwards and a new friendship round the corner. can you please help? P.S i think your site is great and seeing your picture really helps as makes it clear who were contacting.
I also think the free readings are excellent and the tarot and goddess reading was quite accurate.
Hello There
The answers are not a contradiction! I feel the same message is being sent through. The message is to learn to be comfortable with you. To fight the fear of loneliness or rather surrender to life and know you have the power to transform it. If you fear loneliness or cling onto the past there is a danger you will reinforce that energy.
The reading asks you to build spiritually and ‘wait on what you desire’. What you say you desire is your ex. Breaking down your desire I would imagine what you want Is to find the love of your life. Your unhappiness stems from your belief that you had found ‘the love of your life’ and that you have lost them. Your ultimate desire is to feel loved and be with someone you love and adore someone you feel is your soul mate?
With Mars in Leo your pride is strong! You feel sure that he is the one. Born in 1981 with Venus in Sagittarius love will surprise you and can arrive at any time. Let go of your fixed ideas and understand that one thing is for sure. Life is a magical mystery tour. What seems certain today can be uncertain tomorrow.
Love is one of our greatest lessons and we all think we are sure when we love an individual. If I had ended up with the people I thought ‘were the one’ or who I had an exceptional soul connections with in my twenties. I would never have had the rich and fulfilling love I found when I was older. Thank the Universe that it knew better!
If you lover comes back or it ends up being someone else. The message is clear ‘let go and trust’ know that what is for you will not pass you by. Know that love is infinite and as we are all one, we are all love. Love exists in many levels. There is not only one love, one soul mate. Sometimes the people that we love the deepest are the ones we cannot be with as the intensity takes over our journey. Love is everywhere if you let it be. Whatever energy you give out, what ever your vibration is, you will draw to you the love you need. Understand your own patterns. Understand we all have different perceptions of love and life will give you beautiful surprises.
My advice in any break situation is let go, letting go frees the energy for change. When the energy is changed if it is meant to be they will return. If not LIVE and know that life will always bring you what you need if you let it. Embrace the fact that if it does not work out there is someone else who could blow you away even more! That could make you heart flutter more! Life has infinate magic and unlimited love.
2 days before our annual holiday abroad my husband informed me that our marriage was either terminal or dead, we have been together 21 years and married for 13 of them, we have two wonderful kids, we are at present awaiting counselling as my hubby is not able to enlighten me as to where he sees that things have gone wrong, this has all come as a shock to me as i thought we were doing okay, he can't give me the answers to my numerous questions as he says he doesn't know himself why, where, when it went wrong?
I’m pretty much stuck in limbo at the moment. He has said that he doesn't love me but he feels we can work this out, I have never questioned his love, perhaps i always assumed it would be there, so it is extremely painful to realise that he has no love for me. I on the other hand feel that my love for him has grown over the years. My main concern is that if we do manage to work through this and stay together, I feel that i may be taking a risk and setting myself up for more heartache; I’m constantly going round in circles and can't see the wood for the trees so to speak, any advice would be greatly appreciated.
The first thing I pick up is that is a deep crisis within your husband, not based on yourself or even really the relationship. Midlife crisis is too easy a term to use more of an identity crisis or soul crash; of course you are swallowed up in the fallout.
I believe he does not feel good enough in some way and is extending his discontent onto you. We often make the mistake in long term relationships as not seeing our spouse or partner as separate. I am a great proponent of every day seeing ones partner ‘with new eyes’ not letting familiarity breed contempt!
I know this feels very intense, like your world has come crashing down but with this comes a great renewal and a new meeting with your deepest self, a chance for you to be reborn out of the apparent ashes of your life.
On the 22nd or there about you are likely to find out if there is anything left of this partnership but this is an opportunity to forge a new relationship with yourself and with your partner which ever way it goes. Do not take literally or personally his harsh analysis that he does not love you. If after counselling he still feels he does not love you then I do not feel, looking at your chart, that you can continue as you have moon in Taurus which is very loyal but the other side of that coin is that you find disloyalty impossible to live with. With Venus in Pisces you need romance a spiritual link and empathy for a relationship to work.
The good news is that as a free spirited Aquarius with Mars and Saturn in Aquarius you are able to be independent much more easily than you now imagine. In fact one of your soul lessons is to learn to be free and to respect and support others right to be free. Let go with love and examine how you feel about the structure and possible structures of your life past, present and future. You are a powerful woman and can handle this.
I get the Hermit for you right now, so go within and do not be afraid of loneliness for it is a passing faze. The next card I pulled was the 9 of cups so a great wish will be delivered to you as reward for handling this great turmoil with the dignity and strength you have so far. I also get the Ace of Rods and the Sun. You children will be fine and I feel that you are the stronger of the two of you in many more ways than you currently realise.
This will turn from disaster to gift so please do not be too down heartened. Surrender to the truth and know that life will not abandon you but give you a new lease within the next 12 months. You will be very surprised by what you gain from this.
Sending much love
Michele
Dear Michele,
Just over 2 years ago I gave up "the day job" to start my own business offering complementary therapy treatments based at home. I really felt that this was my true path in life yet I am continually feeling I'm taking 3 steps forward, 2 steps back where the business is concerned. I seem to keep hitting a brick wall, despite my best efforts, and I am running out of ideas as to how to move forward. There is a strong possibility we may be re-locating in a year or so's time, so I wonder if I would have greater success in a new place. I do endeavour to follow my intuition, and I really felt this was what I should be doing with my life, but I am starting to think my judgement may have been clouded by wishful thinking and am feeling pretty disheartened. Should I be looking to pursue something different instead? I would be deeply grateful for your insight. I had a reading with you a few years ago and it was instrumental in enabling me to move my life forward (a big thank-you!).
Hello there
Right lets have a look into this! Firstly I feel you need to find balance between doing what you love and generating interest. So many people are offering Reiki etc. it is essential you PR yourself. Give yourself some unique branding and also try to get some publicity from local papers etc.
You have to have total faith as well as a passion to relaunch this endeavour. Why would the clients want to come to you rather than Jane Bloggs down the road? Look at how you package your gifts and your business. Let your heart and integrity shine through and you will notice a shift. I feel that some big changes are coming for you in June of next year and also perhaps do some Xmas specials to rustle up more business around that time as it seems slow toward the end of the year.
When we go into any business it is essential to be unique and let our greater message shine through. Do you feel that your leaflets and the room where you practice reflect this as I am not sure that you have got that side of it quite right? Leo’s hate failure and I feel your initial disappointment that it didn’t take off has left you not trying with your original passion. Make sure that you have enough space to do it at home and also look to see if local places need a complimentary therapist once a week like hairdressers etc. Be bold, be unique and be you! Go to the local radio station or a big corporate company and offer a free day so people can trial what you offer.
With your Mars in Scorpio you are much more sensitive than people realise and always tend to stand on your own two feet. You do not like being seen as ‘weak’ but now is time to shift those belief systems and strive to collaborate and seek guidance from others in your field. Get the fun back into it!
You have the ability to be very successful and most of all by word of mouth. When you are in the right frame of mind you shine. You are a beacon of attractiveness and a magnet so get shinning!
I get the Fool indicating you need to leap in and be impulsive and try something new with lateral thinking! Then I get the Star which is inspiration so this should work out for you. Please look at the package you are offering as a whole and build on the uniqueness of what you are offering. Cosmic order it, then surrender to the joy of your work.
Much love and let me know what happens
Michele x
I have just been reading your problem page and thought what good advice you seem to offer., so thought I would ask you myself! Over the years I have had quite a few readings from refutable psychics, which have all been very good and their readings have been similar and consistent. A lot of what they have said has come about, but mainly for my family........I always seem to be waiting for the good things to happen for me! Some of them have said that 'timing' events is always difficult, as the Spirit world has no concept of time. Can you tell me if you see anything positive happening for me in the next 12 months or so?
Hi there
Your email made me smile so I am answering instantly! I noticed your Freudian slip, I think you meant reputable but you wrote refutable which means of course prove false! So somewhere in your unconscious you are very displeased and disillusioned by your readings and it feels like on some level with your life!
Lets get down to the nitty gritty. Before I pull a card or tune into your astrologically I want you to remember your power, your infinite power to create you reality as it feels that you have forgotten. Sitting around or half heartedly ‘waiting’ (your words not mine!) for life to come and offer you abundance and joy, love and passion will not bring you what you desire. The readers in question are likely to be picking up what will occur but you have to take charge of your destiny and assist in the manifestation!
I notice I am using a lot of exclamation marks when writing to you! This is because I feel you are in a Piscean dream world, you want the reality and are fantasising about this fantastic future which is sure to arrive as it has been predicted HOWEVER unless you grab the reins of your life and start to revel in the magnificence of you, it could remain just that, a dream.
You have Mars and Venus in Pisces which does not help as it fills you with a natural spiritual understanding but can prevent you from doing the practical things you need to do to transform. Astrologically this year has and had the potential to be excellent for you. I do see you learning and growing but babe, you have got to make this happen. Don’t have any more readings but focus on making the readings a reality and changing routines and patterns to invite in your spectacular future. Remember that our future is dependent on our choices TODAY so do something today, right this minute to transform.
Loads love
Michele
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